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There Is No Reward for Being Good

I used to believe that being good would save me; that obedience, kindness, and quiet endurance would lead me to peace. But life has taught me otherwise. Goodness doesn’t guarantee

Mourning the Lost Twenty Something and Choosing to Live the Next Chapter

Ageing is strange. One day you’re young and carefree, the next you’re the adult making decisions that shape lives. Lately I’ve been realising how quickly time has moved, and with

I Died at 25 — and It Saved My Life

At 22, I was convinced I wouldn’t live past 25. I prepared for the end with quiet determination, arranging my life as if it were a countdown. But life, in

The Weight of Being Invisible: How Childhood Shapes Self-Worth

Recently, I watched a video by StephCo, a YouTuber known for her thoughtful commentary. In this particular video, she was reflecting on pretty privilege—the idea that those deemed conventionally attractive

Learning to Celebrate Myself: Breaking a Lifetime of “Do Better” Conditioning

It’s interesting how many of us struggle to celebrate ourselves. We hold back, worried that celebrating will come across as vain, as if acknowledging our own success will outshine someone

Recovering Sugar Addict: The Sweet Truth That Woke Me Up

Yoghurt-coated cranberries made me realise that I might have a sugar problem. Last night, I had the bright idea to rearrange my kitchen cupboards. As I laid the items on

Beyond the Postcards: The Unfiltered Reality of My UK Life

When I realised I was moving to UK, I got so excited. I couldn’t wait to ride in the famous double-decker buses and take Instagram worthy pictures in the red

Unlocking Love: How Your Attachment Style Shapes Relationships

Understanding Attachment Styles: Navigating Relationships with Confidence Weddings bring friends and family together, but for me, they also bring anxiety and fear. It’s not that I don’t like my family—I

But Do You Deserve It Though?

Today I want us to discuss whether you actually deserve it. Do you actually deserve achieving your dreams? Do you deserve that car, that house, that lifestyle? I was listening

Facing Change: How to Embrace New Opportunities

The post discusses the challenges and benefits of embracing life changes. The author, who recently moved continents, explores four consequences of resisting change: missed opportunities, stagnation, mental health issues, and