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It’s been a while since I wrote anything on this blog.

I wish I could say that I was off writing a novel or doing tonnes of research to bring you amazing articles for weeks to come; but that would be a lie. I have been away reflecting: reflecting on who I am, how I execute certain things and how I wish to improve.

Those that know me know that I am a rather creative person. I come up with brilliant ideas, but I struggle to execute them. Birthing these ideas and growing them into the reality they deserve to be is a challenge to me. I can use my YouTube channel as an example. I stand to be corrected but I don’t think you will find any other channel where we have a chat about various topics while colouring; unless you watch ASMR videos.

I started my channel because I find colouring very therapeutic and I enjoy talking about random things. It’s a concept that many have told me is very unique and interesting. However, I soon found myself struggling to make more videos. Struggling not because I had lost interest, but because I could no longer keep myself motivated to continue. I have realised that this is a very common theme in my life; my attempt to change up my Instagram is a case in point.

When I come up with ideas, I start off strong but struggle to complete. And for the longest time I struggled to understand why that was the case because I watched as other people brought their ideas to life. I watched as other people were able to bask in the light of their creation. It was at this point that I chose to start seeing a life coach.

My life coach, Adeline, introduced me to the concept of the Four Tendencies. The Four Tendencies is a framework that talks about how people deal with expectations and how one is motivated, whether internally and/or externally.

There are four tendencies:

  • Upholder
  • Questioner
  • Rebel
  • Obliger

Each tendency has its advantages and disadvantages, so there is no such thing as the perfect tendency. Learn more about the Four Tendencies on my latest YouTube video.

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Ros Limbo
mulemwa.limbo@gmail.com

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